Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert, writes… …
I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. Here are a couple of your burning questions and my Law of Attraction coaching answer to them.
1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. If I haven’t met a good one by now, will it ever happen?
If you can desire it, you can achieve it. Find out what belief you have, what story you’re telling yourself that’s not true and make it your business to shift that belief.
If you’ve been asking and it’s not been forthcoming, there’s only one reason. When you ask, and it’s not coming, you have a dominant belief or vibration about it being difficult. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. When you find out what that belief is, do whatever it takes to soothe yourself about it. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.
2. How do I bring in the certainty in receiving? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. Build your belief muscles by pretending how wonderful it will be when your love shows up. Practice what it feels like to be in love. One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Practice frequently. It takes repetition to learn a new habit.
By the feeling state, I mean engaging all of the senses by imagining what it will be like when … … the love of your dreams shows up … you plan a surprise gourmet picnic for him … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you play games in the car on a long ride etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your vibration into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.
