Coaching for Singles: Find a Relationship with the Law of Attraction
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
Single people who come to me to understand the Law of Attraction to attract love often ask me for coaching. They wonder, “Can you attract an incompatible relationship?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I’ll elaborate. You attract the “Wrong” lover with a basis on what it is you say you want. That is, your words are projecting “I desire a person who is fun, loving, and passionate. Someone who will treat me well” and your dominant expectation is something more like … “I never get the correct woman. Why is it my friends get such a simple route? What am I doing wrong? Where are all of the eligible amazing women? And so on. So you are going to end up attracting more concerning what you are unconsciously desiring and expecting. So is she wrong? Perhaps, is your thinking wrong? The Law of Attraction says what you focus on you attain more of. So if you’re not in a relationship and are searching for a love, you must focus on what it is like to be in a love relationship, not the other way around.
A good way to strengthen your thinking on this is by using a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You can use this tool when you find you experience some negative emotion and need to keep changing the direction of your attention and find a happier feeling mindset. When you desire to improve your point of creation because you’ve got some negative momentum going. Here is how it works: you need to do this in written form to get the jist of the exercise. I really recommend that you always write a Book of Positive Aspects. You’ll wish to give yourself at least 15 minutes for this practice.
Near the top of the page put down the area of what you want a more harmonious energy set point on. Perhaps something has caught your attention that you do not desire, you’d prefer to not experience it, or perhaps you’ve acquired a good bit of judgment about this subject and feel bad. Write down what that is. Then notice that you know what you do not want and the comparison has helped you to create the intention of what you actually want. Your job is to put down a detailed the intentions you want. And keep directing your desire to the better feeling thought. Put down lists of what you appreciate about what IS working, what is good, what you have that you DO like, even about the current situation. Search for aspects of your life to be grateful for in the situation and in any outside or related situation. This will point you to the positive attraction mode. You’ll create what you desire rather than negative intentions. Try it out for yourself. What do you have to lose?
