Survive Your Breakup

If you are asking the question – how do I get my girlfriend back – then I have an answer, but it takes a bit of work. You are here probably because you want her back But you may be at a loss as to where to begin. Phone her and beg her to come back maybe?

By doing that you will kill your chance of successfully getting her back. It’s time for a time out. No contact for a few weeks. I know that sounds stupid but it works, it really does.

She’s no doubt expecting you to call and beg if she was the one who broke up. By doing the opposite and not calling you put her of balance and she starts to get a bit curious about you. She starts to wonder how you are dealing with the breakup and what you are up to.

Clearly you are going to be a bit down but you don’t want her knowing that. You need to show her you are just fine if you meet up for any reason. Show her you are better than ok and getting on with your life.

This move usually gets a hint of jealousy inside her. Doesn’t matter if she did dump you, if she even thinks you might be over her she’s going to be a bit jealous. It’s automatic for us humans to get these feelings.

I used this as my first tactic when I wanted to get my ex wife back. I heard through friends that she was secretly asking about me so I knew it worked. This is a sign she is still interested in the relationship.

After a while I invited her to go for a coffee, nothing major, just coffee. Of course, she accepted. After we’d had a few coffees I asked her to go for lunch. We had a few lunch dates before I was pretty confident she was totally at ease with me and being together.

When she’s in the comfort zone it’s time to go to the next level, which is a date. A proper date this time. A few dates are all it took to get her feeling at ease with the situation again. It doesn’t seem a big deal to her to stay over at my place after we’ve been out.

I’m sure you can see the bigger picture here. You move her from one level to the next, but in her own time. Once she’s in her comfort zone it’s time to move to the next level. She will hardly notice any of this. In her eyes it’s just the natural course of events, when in reality it’s you doing all the steering.

All this is a small part of the overall plan that answers your question of – how do I get my girlfriend back -. I must point out, that these aren’t my ideas. I was as bewildered as you probably are when My ex broke up with me. I came across a system online that had step by step instructions to get your ex back.

I admit I just didn’t believe the hype. But I was happily proved wrong. We can all be easily manipulated. It’s a trait of the human race. Your ex girlfriend is no exception. You can learn these tricks and get her back.

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