Survive Your Breakup

OK, you blew it. Big time. You did something thoughtless or dumb or unforgiveable. Now you want your girlfriend–sorry, EX girlfriend–to come back.

So, what’s your plan? How are you gonna get her back… where she belongs?

Here are 3 tactics that will help… a lot.

Buy Her Roses

Yeah, I know. That sounds like something you’d read in a 1950’s manners book. Lots of men say that sentimental stuff–like flowers–doesn’t work with women in the 21st century. And those guys are DEAD WRONG!

Most women ADORE flowers. And they particularly love it when the men they love think about the gift… and give them their favorite flowers. Something that means a lot to her.

Trust me. If you want to get your girlfriend back… give her special flowers. That won’t be enough, but the first step is to show you really care.

Talk To Her, Openly And Honestly

Let her talk. Don’t interrupt. Don’t offer solutions. Don’t pretend to listen while you watch TV. Listen… like she’s the most fascinating woman on the planet.

And you really want her back… so–for you–you ex girlfriend is the most magnetic person on earth. And after you listen to her… she’ll definitely listen to you. You’ve made her feel loved and special and important… so she’ll return the favor.

Then you’ll both be able to explain–openly, with no anger–the real reasons why you broke up. And you might find ways to overcome those problems. That’s a wonderful second step!

Appreciate Her

This is the critical step in getting your ex girlfriend to come back. She’ll return to you ONLY if you’re the one who satisfies her needs best. Add more and greater value to her life than anybody else does… and she’ll come back to you. If you don’t… she won’t.

Not sure What she wants? Listen to Aretha Franklin. She wants RESPECT.

And she wants to feel appreciated. She did lots of things for you. How often did you say “thanks”. How often did you tell her how much you appreciated everything she did for you? How often did you tell her how much she meant to you?

For most men, the likely answers are “rarely”, “almost never”, and “never”. That’s the real mistake you made. You may think she left because of some other problem… but that lack of appreciation… that lack of RESPECT… is the core problem. Fix that, and all the other problems will fade away like fog in sunshine.

Show her (don’t just talk about it–talk’s cheap; do something) how much you appreciate her… how much your respect her… and how much she means to you… and you’ll get your ex girlfriend back fast.

And more important… you’ll be the sort of tender, caring man who deserves to have such a wonderful woman back in his arms.

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