Play the Dating Game and Win
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction RelationshipExpert, writes… …
Lots of people get back into the dating game with trepidation. In the first installment of Dating Consciously, the dating advice I shared was I asked … “What if I could show you how to get clear on your intentions before you get disillusioned by the dating scene”? I also said that “Your thoughts create your reality and if that’s so, wouldn’t you like to know what’s keeping you from having fun and success in dating?”
In Part Two, I’ll go more deeply into the aspects of The Game that’s supposed to be fun with no losers. Play with Passion and Purpose. Dating is a game you can re-write the rules at any time. To play the Dating Consciously game, you need to know that:
1. You are playing a game
2. You willingly remember that it’s going to be fun (because you created it as a game for that purpose), and
3. There are no winners or losers
Remeber when you played tag or hide and seek? You could play for hours and hours. It was just plain and simple fun.. Try to access that innocence just for a moment right now.
Why have so many of us lost it? In the previous paragraph notice how quickly it returned – if just for a moment – but it did return! You create that kind of ease and joy by simply remember it into being. You pretend it into existence, you play it into reality for the sake of playing. And guess what? Your energy shifts so quickly to that light and high vibration, that unless you negate it with limiting beliefs, you become very attractive. You’re energy is literally calling out to like energy to play with it.
The 2 Biggest Stoppers to Dating Consciously
1. Fear of failure/rejection
2. Fear of looking bad/not enough
1. Fear of failuse is a common experience Almost everyone has had failed relationships. You’re not alone there. It doesn’t mean anything about who you are. It’s just something that happened. You would grant anyone of your friends the space to move on after a relationship that didn’t work out. Considering that failing is just making room for a new experience. Play and be present. [Show up intending to have fun and learn something new, not to prove how great you are or how broken you are.
2. Do you feel ‘less than’?
You feel that you’re just not good enough on some level. Consider that at the core, everyone has that ancient internal conversation, too. Most everyone at times feels low in self-confidence. You’re not alone here.
Do your best to remain present and on your purpose is to have fun. Think of it as an exploration. “What’s something new can I learn about myself or my date?” You’ve just consciously sent intentions ahead of you.
Playing with passion and purpose is a simple way expand who you are in the moment. Play with self-expression with the focus on having fun. Purpose means deliberating intending what you’re up to. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.
The vibration of FUN is one of the highest around. Laugh and have fun. You’ll become a magnet for fun people and if you keep practicing that, eventually you’ll attract the perfect fun mate.
You can learn these tools and more with Relationship Coaching. Dating, like life, if approached as a fun game where there are no losers goes much more smoothly for everyone.
