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You are reading this article on how to attract women right? It’s comforting to know that there’s no set standard guideline how determining if you can attract women or not. But, that’s not a good thing. As I can only provide some general tips, I can’t say you can follow them in a scripted way so you get the results you want everytime.

What I can give you is point out some factors that most women find attractive in a man. If you have these qualities in your personality, then you will attract women.

Getting girls does not mean you need to have $ or be a young stud or in fact anything that you see on TV that you might think you need. Having the cars and houses and good looks doesn’t do you any harm though.

So the things you need to know in order learn how to attract women are:

• You let her realize that you are not interested in being a normal friend - What is the reason for this? In short if you are considered just a friend, then you are in that zone in the woman’s mind where you are just not relationship material. Do not ask me why. It just happens that way.
• You are a man - Women like men! I have no understand of why guys try to act like girly women? I think it’s got something to do with how society feeds you the bullshit that you need to be a new age sensitive type of metrosexual. You know what. Females have been attracted to males who behaved like males for well… the beginning of time. Perhaps, the reason why you are not succeeding with women is that you are not acting like a real man.
• You come across as a high status male - Mentioned earlier, women have always been attracted to men who act like men. What is the reason for this? The reason is because men like this show her that he is of high social worth. You don’t even need cars, looks or money for her to know this. Showing her personality traits that let her know you are a high status male is all that you need to do.
• You are a challenge - Put simply, people like things they can’t have. There is nothing that rings more truth to this, especially since if she cannot have you! You want to know why whores are not respected? Because they are easy. Same thing goes with attracting women. Challenge!
• You are not a wuss - That means, you say no to girls and their demands! You do things if only she meets your demands. Eg. I ask what’s in it for me if a girl wants something from me? What makes you want to do these things? The reason for this is because you don’t need her favor. But you want to let her know that you are a high status male. They have to deserve it!

Above was a short summary of ideas that you needed to know if you want to learn how to get women. For a full list of details check out my article titled: How To Attract Women or online dating tips

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Right now I don’t believe I’m actually tutoring you on women. I used to be pathetic with women so many years ago but with time I was able to melt the ice and reveal the warmth of companionship I was missing from my life. And all I can say is that there are a few things that a lot of men don’t know, I will reveal those right here.

The best way to ensure that you increase your chances with women is by getting to know them. Getting to know how women think can be a significant lift if you talk to a lot of women. By being used to talking to women you immediately eradicate your fear of being turned down. Eventually you will be able to start a conversation with any woman with no trouble at all.

Nevertheless, there is a deep voice that will emerge from inside you like the chords from an ibanez acoustic guitar. This is the voice that will tell you all the bad things that can happen if you talk to a woman. You must learn to shut that voice out and just talk to women. By doing this you will help yourself to get rid of your fear of talking to women.

Jewelry pendants are not the pathway to a woman’s heart. Instead what will work best is touching her. I don’t mean the freaky and awkward sort of touching that is a surprise to a woman who is not used to it. Attraction for women is triggered by touching her whenever you have the chance to. This way she won’t be too surprised when you lean in for the first kiss.

Confidence tells a woman that you are a good candidate for a relationship. Make sure you don’t show a woman that you are scared or insecure by putting your hands in your pockets and by standing with your legs crossed behind you. Stand with your legs apart from one another; look at her deep in the eyes and make sure you don’t reach into your pockets whilst talking to a woman.

With a woman you must never divulge every single detail of your plans. Be mysterious and spontaneous whenever you are with her so that she finds you to be unpredictable. The moment a woman can predict your every move problems can arise for some unknown reason. So work on the element of surprise and with no time at all she will find you intriguing.

Don’t give in to everything a woman demands of you. For example, if you’re going skiing don’t be pushed into buying the most expensive alpine skiing equipment just because you don’t want to drive her away. Tell her the truth and she will find that attractive. But if you admit to everything she wants she won’t be attracted to you.

Okay men, listen up, this is a lady speaking. I have some great tips for you which my sisterhood will not like you to know. If you really want to know how to pick up girls this weekend, just read on.

Prepare Yourself
The first and one of the most important tips to be successful in picking up woman is to present yourself as being pickupable. You definitely have to put more effort into getting ready to go out instead of wasting time looking for a t-shirt in the laundry that does not smell too bad. Ok, the way to start is from the top down.

Hair: Get it cut regularly. Heck, you should even splurge and go to a real salon instead of just the local Walmart cut and trim joint. You need to show off your cool style by investing in some appropriate styling products. Do not be afraid of hair products. Just tell yourself this, “Brad Pitt wears them and he has Angelina Jolie.”

Face: If clean cut is not the thing for you, get over it. Clean cut is almost always the way to go. Just because you have been slaving over your tiny precious “soul patch” since high school, does not mean it is attractive to the ladies. Shave it off.

Smell: IMPORTANT, take a shower. If you stink, this is not France, and you will NOT get the girl. Remember all of those silly commercials showing the new mens body sprays. I am sure, they will have the right idea. It is a fact: women are attracted to men who smell good. It is a good idea to invest in something classier than Bod though. ALSO IMPORTANT, do not overdo it. Spray several sprays in the air and walk through the mist. This is enough to carry you through the night smelling good.

Clothes: all I have to say is… you know the gay guys you have always been making fun of? It is a good idea to find out how they are dressed. Unless they are wearing pink or stillettos, they are probably wearing the latest fashion and should be admired and copied. Ladies love a man with style.

Shoes: No scrubby old sneakers for the club please. Do not wear those ugly sandals. Cover those bad boys up in something fashionable and stylish. Again, check out your nearest gay for a hint.

BE BOLD
The second tip in picking up ladies is to leave the cheesy pick up lines at home, but make sure to pack your self confidence. If you thing perfume is attractive, sorry, self confidence is. DO NOT be afraid of us and we will very rarely bite (in a mean way). If you get shot down by asking a woman if she would like to dance or if you can buy her a drink, do not despair. There are plenty of girls who will take you up on the offer.

PAY OUR WAY
I know in this age we can buy our drinks ourselves, but a bought drink still tells a woman that you are interested, that’s why we like it. Do not buy her a rolex on the first meeting, but do not be afraid to buy a drink or three. Heck, that may loosen us up enough to think your pick up lines are cute.

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