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Why Won’t My Ex Call Me Back?
Do you find yourself asking Why won’t my ex call me back? more than you ask yourself any other question these days? Does he simply ignore you and never return your calls? Do you call him every five minutes and beg him to call you back?
Maybe you need to relax and not try so hard. The best thing you can do right now is give yourself a break. Step back, relax, leave town for a few days, and devote some time to finding out exactly what you expect or want from your ex. There is a good strategy for getting him to return your call, but if you are not ready with a step by step plan the whole thing will end in disaster. Again.
There is a seemingly magic formula that almost works as well as casting a spell to make your ex want to return your phone call, but until you know exactly what you are doing, do not do anything at all. Instead, ask yourself a few key questions and be completely honest with your answers?
- Why do I need him to return my calls so badly? Do I just need to organize the kids’ carpools, or am I hoping for something more?
- Am I secretly hoping to get my ex back?
- Was our old relationship so wonderful that it is really not best to just let it go?
- What was it about him that made me love him?
- What special about me did he love?
- Did he hit me or shower me with verbal abuse? Hint: If the answer to this one is “yes”, even one time, DO NOT try to get him back. Do not contact him. Walk away and start a new life. You don’t deserve abuse.
After you have answered all those questions honestly, if you still want him to call you back, there are steps you can take that will put you on the right track. It is all set forth in a little book called The Magic of Making Up, which you really need to get your hands on before you set forth on your own to get your ex back (or to just get him to call you back so you can find out where he left the can opener).
The Magic of Making Up is more than simply a book. It is a simple, but brilliant, system for keeping relationships healthy and putting them back together when they are broken, created by an everyday guy named T.W. Jackson. T.W. doesn’t have a PhD or any other sheepskins hanging on his wall — but he knows people and relationships and has helped over ten thousand people around the world keep their relationships healthy.
Simply stated, the strategy for getting your ex to return your calls is simple: Don’t plead, don’t lie. Stir up his curiosity and appeal to his self interest. If you play it right, he will return your call thinking it was his own idea to call you. This short article can’t cover the whole plan, so you must read the book first in order to make sure you do nothing to cause further damage to your relationship. If you don’t plan ahead, he might return your call and catch you unprepared for what to do next.