Posts Tagged ‘love relationship’
Super Charge your Love Relationship with Law of Attraction Advice
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Expert , writes… …
Peter from Florida asks: How can I super charge my romance? How can I improve my marriage?
Thank you, Peter. You’re proof that romantic guys are out there. I got one, and so did Peter’s beloved.
As much as it seems that the thrill or spark has diminished over time, believe it or not, it’s a matter of focus and intention..We are such powerful creators that we can shift outcomes by our very expectations and what we place our attention of focus upon.
In the day to day routine of life, we all need to take a moment and prioritize what’s important. You’re right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.
Energy goes where your attention flows. So what you focus on will expand; you’ll get more of what you’re focusing on. So it’s of high importance that if you want an improvement in your love life, then you have to shift focus and start looking for things in your mate that you appreciate. To help this along, think of what you really love about your mate. Place more attention on what you love about the time you spend together and the times in the past you’ve spent together that have been sublime
Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it’s ok to ask for love relationship advice. Do you best to stay away from focusing on the elements that don’t work so well. You’re attracting what you rather not experience.
You’ll learn much more about how to use the Shifting Focus & the Pivoting Process AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
Improve your Relationship with Love Advice that Works
Free Video Reveals #1 Love Secret
Nanette Geiger, Relationship Specialist , writes… …
Peter from Florida asks: How can I improve my current relationship? How can I super charge my romance?
Thank you, Peter. It’s wonderful that a lovely gentleman is asking this question..You see gals, there are lots of romantics out there. I got one, and so can you..
Over time, it appears that the passion or thrill has decreased. We can restimulate and recreate the passion. Believe it or not, it’s more a matter of choice and intentionality.When we choose to become purposeful and focused on an outcome, we can see shifts in a matter of moments.
Life can get methodical and it’s important to know what’s fundamental in our relationship. You’re right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.
Energy goes where your attention flows. So what you focus on will expand; you’ll get more of what you’re focusing on. So you have to look at and appreciate what you do want; an improved romance. Look for things in your relationship that are working really well. Spend moments every day musing about what was once delightful so you can re-create more of that.
Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it’s ok to ask for love relationship advice. Do you best to stay away from focusing on the elements that don’t work so well. You’d rather have what you want, not more of what you DON’T want.
I teach about how to use the Shifting Focus & the Pivoting Process AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
Super Charge your Love Relationship with Law of Attraction Advice
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert , writes… …
Peter from Florida asks: How can I improve my present relationship? How can I super charge my romance?
Thank you, Peter. You’re proof that romantic guys are out there. I got one, and so can you..
As much as it seems that the thrill or spark has diminished over time, believe it or not, it’s a matter of focus and intention..We are such powerful creators that we can shift outcomes by our very expectations and what we place our attention of focus upon.
In the day to day routine of life, we all need to take a moment and prioritize what’s important. You’re right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.
What you place your attention on will expand in your experience. So it’s of high importance that if you want an improvement in your love life, then you have to shift focus and start looking for things in your mate that you appreciate. To help this along, think of what you really love about your mate. Spend moments every day musing about what was once delightful so you can re-create more of that.
Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it’s ok to ask for love relationship advice. Beware however, if looking at these aspects causes you to feel lackful in any way. Such as, “oh, I wish it were like that” “Ah to be passionately in love again” “the good old days, like they’ll never return, then you’re doing the opposite of what you want. You’d rather have what you want, not more of what you DON’T want.
You’ll learn much more about how to use the Shifting Focus & the Pivoting Process AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
Improve your Relationship with Love Advice that Works
Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Coach , writes… …
Peter from Florida asks: How can I improve my present relationship? How can I super charge my romance?
Thank you, Peter. You’re proof that romantic guys are out there. I got one, and so can you..
Over time, it appears that the passion or thrill has decreased. We can restimulate and recreate the passion. Believe it or not, it’s more a matter of choice and intentionality.When we choose to become purposeful and focused on an outcome, we can see shifts in a matter of moments.
In the day to day routine of life, we all need to take a moment and prioritize what’s important. You’re right to be asking about how to improve your current love relationship because having a wonderful, thriving, loving relationship is foundational to the rest of the areas of your life.
Energy goes where your attention flows. So what you focus on will expand; you’ll get more of what you’re focusing on. So it’s of high importance that if you want an improvement in your love life, then you have to shift focus and start looking for things in your mate that you appreciate. To help this along, think of what you really love about your mate. Spend moments every day musing about what was once delightful so you can re-create more of that.
Make lists and lists of what you love, appreciate, and enjoy about your relationship, either by looking at the past, or imagining the future. Remember, it’s ok to ask for love relationship advice. Beware however, if looking at these aspects causes you to feel lackful in any way. Such as, “oh, I wish it were like that” “Ah to be passionately in love again” “the good old days, like they’ll never return, then you’re doing the opposite of what you want. You’d rather have what you want, not more of what you DON’T want.
I teach about how to use the Shifting Focus & the Pivoting Process AND Seven more Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams, when you get my FREE DVD called “7 Secrets to Finding the Love of Your Dreams” — Just go to www.loveofyourdreams.com
A Love Relationship, and What Can Go Wrong.
If we are going to be realistic, men often make mistakes in the begining of a love relationship. Following these few strategies, will help ensure that the two of you will be enjoying many years to come.
Everyone is excited that first year of a love relationship. This is the beginning of what will hopefully be the first of many years together. The two of you are learning so much about each other, both the good and the bad. This first year will set the barometer for what you can look forward to in the future. Let’s make sure there will be a future for the two of you!
During that first year, a woman discovers how much her man really cares about her and their love relationship.
Men really need to be on their toes during that first year. You don’t need to be Prince Charming, or ‘Mr. Perfect’, but you need to be aware of what is going on around you in your love relationship and how your lady views you. Here are the big 6 areas where men goof up.
Saying I love you constantly
Those 3 little words, I love you, are some of the most beautiful words in the world. Don’t get me wrong, women love to hear those words, everyone does, but not all the time. The more they are said, the less meaning they have and after a while, they become completely hollow. Saying ‘I love you’ at special times, in special moments, are far more meaningful than saying it all the time in a love relationship.
Tolerating everything about her
Both sexes are going to be extra good during that first year in a love relationship, but forgiving every bad or annoying habit is just asking for trouble. Think of it, how do you expect her to react if you wait months to tell her that it pisses you off when she does/doesn’t do *fill in the blank*?
If she is embarrassing you in public, or is a total slob when it comes to cleaning the kitchen, tell her. Tell her in a calm, loving way. Better to tell her in the beginning when you both can be calm, as opposed to waiting and it becoming a full blown argument.
Initiating sex every time
Some men believe that sex can only happen in the bedroom…wrong. Let her know too that it’s ok for her to initiate sex, that way you are kept wondering about when the next time will be.
Not paying attention
So just because she takes the time to look her best every day doesn’t mean you should stop telling her you think she looks nice. So you used to leave silly love notes around for her to find; why did you stop? Did the two of you used to go out for dinner? You may not be able to afford a fancy dinner in these times, but taking her out even for an appetizer, or just a cup of coffee shows that your love relationship still matters to you.
Did you too used to go to the movies? Well, unless she has developed an allergy to celluloid, keep doing that. The economy shouldn’t keep you from having a good time together. Rent a film or two, and snuggle up on the couch to watch it. Bottom line is, just because you are used to being around each other is no excuse for taking her for granted.
Open communication is key to a love relationship. Having a peaceful talk regarding a problem now is far better in every sense than ending up having an argument about it in the future. By keeping quiet about something that is bothering you, you are essentially telling her that nothing is wrong. What is even worse, when she does find out that something bothers you and yet you kept quiet about it, she will resent the fact that you didn’t have the ‘balls’ to bring it up!
Leaving all decisions up to her
Most women don’t like to be in charge of everything. Even more to the point women dislike a man who doesn’t ever step up to the plate and make his feeling known. When you leave all the decisions to her, she will lose all respect for you, and second guess that you are committed to making your love relationship work. Compromise is one thing, deliberate avoidance of making decisions is another thing.
It’s ok to ask her what to wear for a special occasion; if you really are fashion challenged, but pick out your own clothes any other time. If she has been to a certain restaurant before and you have not; it’s ok to ask her opinion on what she likes there; but you need to decide which burger you want at the drive-thru!
Avoiding making these mistakes can help to make sure that the two of you are able to share many more years after and avoid the things that could could go wrong in your relationship.